Limiting Beliefs: An Exploration

by Andrea Fairbairn Self Improvement
It has only been in the past year or so that I have been exposed to the term limiting beliefs.  The great thing about vernacular we don't commonly use, is that it prompts us to sit up and take note. I remember this in the Landmark Forum when I first participated back in 2000. They used strange terms like "Running a Racket" and " Already Always Listening".   Both were referred to as distinctions because they distinguished a concept that was ...
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What's Stopping You From Having What You Want?

by Andrea Fairbairn Self Improvement
DECISION TIME You have until Monday to make a decision and the thing that’s in the way for you, is the thing that’s been in the way for as long as you can remember.  You know what it is. If you’re like me, it could be money and confidence. Maybe you don’t have the time you want. Perhaps you feel you don’t deserve it.  Maybe you’re not smart enough, pretty enough, good enough or thin enough?  If you were to take a ...
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Another Ideal Day

by Andrea Fairbairn Internet and Businesses Online, Self Improvement
And The Day Begins I wake up and I am present. I listen and feel what my next inspiration is.It doesn’t come right away... and that's okay. I lay there. I notice my surroundings. My beautiful window has sun pouring through it casting glorious golden rays across the room. I am struck by my sense of wonder... like seeing it for the first time. I play a game .... what would it be like to not have language and see everything ...
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One of My Ideal Days

by Andrea Fairbairn Internet and Businesses Online, Relationships, Self Improvement
I am sitting in a newly renovated Starbucks in sunny Mexico. It's just shy of noon and I've been working on one of my newest blog posts for 2 hours. I put the final touches in and press "publish". Another check off my day. Work , Done!  I have talked about being able to work from a coffee shop for as long as I can remember and here I am.  It's hard to believe that I will go home when and ...
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