Always treat yourself with love and respect and you will attract people into your life who love and respect you.
Feeling good and loving yourself exactly how you are right now is so incredibly important. If there are things that you don't like about yourself then it's time to shift your focus to the things you do like about yourself. Just like everyone has something in their life to be grateful for, everyone can find something about themselves they like.
Everything in life works the same whether you are aware of it or not, the Law of Attraction is always working. What you focus on you attract, what you focus on gets bigger and more prominent in your life, what you focus on is what you become and what you ultimately create in your life.
So look around you, if you don't like where you are right now, if you don't like who you are right now, if you don't like what is happening in your life or who you are attracting, then it's time for a shift in focus. STOP thinking about what you don't like. STOP thinking about what you don't want. STOP thinking about how that person hurt you. STOP thinking about that bitch at work who you allow to make you feel stupid. STOP thinking about how unfair it is that you didn't get a payrise. STOP wondering why that boy or girl doesn't like you. STOP holding that grudge. STOP being angry. STOP, STOP, STOP!
All these negative emotions are blocking your power. While you are busy focusing on all these things and feeling all those feelings of anger, hurt, betrayal, injustice, sadness, you are pushing all your goals and real desires away from you. You CANNOT attract what you want while you are thinking about what you don't want. The only thing you will attract when you are thinking about what you don't want or don't like is more of the same. It really is that simple.
Why do some people keep attracting the same kind of partner that emotionally or physically abuses them? Why do some people constantly get sick and then complain to everyone who will listen about how sick they are? Why do some people seem to be so unlucky and things never seem to go their way? If you stop and look at these people and listen to the words coming out of their mouths and their general energy...you will see exactly why. They are emanating what they don't want in their actions and words and they keep attracting those same experiences over and over and over again!
When I lived in Australia, there was a period where it seemed like literally everything that could possibly go wrong was going wrong. I was working for a lawyer who was the biggest tight arse you can imagine and wouldn't give me a payrise so I was basically living on Vegemite and cheese on crackers. Then I bought my first car which turned out to be a total lemon because the guys I bought it from had committed fraud on the road worthy certificate. Then I got a speeding fine and when they checked my licence it had expired so I got another fine on top of that which meant the total fine was more than I earned in a week! That is just to name a few of the issues. I mean I was in a total state. Every chance I got I would be on the phone to my mum or anyone complaining about all this stuff that keeps happening. I had worked myself up about it so much and was stressing and feeling bad about it all the time.
And then...a miracle happened. My mum gave me a big and unexpected verbal slap in the face and said, 'Avalon, every time I've talked to you for the past few months all you are doing is complaining about everything that is going wrong. You need to stop it. You will just keep attracting everything you don't want. Stop focusing on all the bad and start thinking about what you want.' Well I was pretty shocked, I was used to Mum having a sympathetic ear and letting me whinge.
Anyway, maybe it was the shock of it all, but I did actually listen to her. I mean she listened to me whinge and bitch for months so I thought I owed her a bit of ear time. And once again, Mum was right. As soon as I stopped complaining and started thinking about what I wanted everything started to turn around. I got a new job and a $10K payrise, I sued the people who sold me the lemon car and got all my money back, I got my licence renewed and paid the bloody fine because I could now afford it, I moved into a different house and made amazing friends with my new housemates. Basically everything that I had been complaining about completely swung around and all in the space of about 6 months.
The above story is from when I was only 20 years old, but I have proved this works numerous times over and over again in the the past 14 years. Yes, I have had a few wobbles and spiralled back into self pity and feeling sorry for myself so my world has crashed down around me a few times. However, I know this works and I know how to get myself out of it now and I promise you, it works every time. I change my thoughts, I change my words, I fill my mind with positive and uplifting information and so quickly life becomes magical again. Everything falls into place and starts to become a joy and a pleasure again.
So if you are having or have had a little wobble recently then that's when you need someone like me here writing this blog to tell you to wake up to yourself and stop complaining. Stop whinging and realise that you are in control and creating everything in your life. If you don't like it change your thoughts...it is as simple as that!
Wishing you love and happiness,