The Art of Allowing

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The art of allowing is a three-step process to getting what you want. 

It is possible to get what you want, the universe is always giving you what you ask for.  It's just that most of the time we don't realise what we are asking for.  Here I explain a technique that has been taught in the book 'Ask and it is Given' by Esther and Jerry Hicks, which when practiced can create great results!

A simple process

This three-step process is in fact very simple, it's just not always easy.  Our mind can take us off in all sorts of directions and getting it back on the right track can take practice. It is important to trust in the process and know that you are supported by the universe.

Focus on it, not the lack of it

In order to receive what you desire your focus must be on it, not the lack of it.  If your focus is on the lack of it, then the lack of it is what you will receive.  Each desire is in fact split two ways; the desire itself and the lack of it.  

Contrasts and desires

We experience contrasts in our lives that cause us to have desires.  Each desire is answered immediately by the universe - described in the book as 'rockets of desire' ( as a little interlude at this point I have to let you know that my radio is on in the background and they are talking about rockets - make of that what you will!)  However, if we then focus on the lack of that thing then the universe will move it further away from us, not towards us.

The three-step process

  1. Ask.  This is something that naturally arises when we have contrasting experiences.  Our natural preferences are born and our desires (this is the 'asking') are formed that range from unconscious to very clear and specific.  This can be in the form of asking verbally but more often vibrationally - this is the energy with which we communicate.
  2. The universe answers.  This part of the process is completely out of your hands.  At this point your desire has been answered by the universe, higher power or whatever you choose to call it.  Many people will argue that their desires have not been answered but this is because they have gone straight from asking to focussing on the lack of it.  Here is where step 3 comes into play.
  3. Allow it in.  The Art of Allowing comes when you match the vibrational frequency of your desire to the vibrational frequency of your Being.  This is also called 'being in the receiving mode'.  How do you do this?  Well, you will need to focus on the thing and not the lack of it, though sometimes we think we are focussing on the desire but what we feel is the lack of it and that is the vibration that will be answered.  This is a skill that will come with practice.

So there is a simple three-step process to having your desires answered positively. Keep practicing and let me know how you get on.  You can read more about the Art of Allowing in 'Ask and it is Given' by Esther and Jerry Hicks.  I hope you enjoyed reading, please leave a comment or like my Facebook Page

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