HOW TO BUILD AND KEEP THE BEST RELATIONSHIP
It is an undeniable fact that the whole exists on relationships. Yet, it is the more difficult to keep than to build. It is easier to build a relationship rather than to keep, as mather of fact a new relationship stand about 75 to 80% probability of divorce if the 'how to keep it side' is not added. That is why most relationships are broken and destroyed. Notwithstanding the fact that, relationship is the most important thing in life. Building a relationship has to do with, connecting, contacting, to be with or even fellowship with someone. On the other hand, how to keep a relationship has to with the character, attitude, reactions which are brought into the relationship. In other words, your character and attitude, reactions and responses makes you keep your relationship.
Untill you learn to change to adapting a good behaviour which includes, character, attitude and reactions, you won't enjoy happiness in your relationship and you will be miserable, heart broken and rejected in every relationship that you will build or try to build. Why? because humans are spirit beings and life itself is also spiritual therefore you must posses the spiritual values to make your relationship the best one on earth. Before I go on to the spiritual values, click the link below to learn how to generate more income in other for you to have more time with your friends and families. Learn how to generate more income online.
Now these are the spiritual values:
- LOVE. Do you love yourself and how much love do you have for others also? Have you asked yourself that question? Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. Love is not envious, it does not brag, it is not proud, it is not rude, it is not selfish, it does not take offence, Love does not keep wrongs, It always trust, always hope and it endures all things. Do you ignore wrong doing and endure all things?
- JOY. Do you enjoy your life? In other words, are you happy with yourself? People who are not happy with themselves are those who get offended easily.
- PEACE. Are you the person who seek peace all the time even when you are the victim or do you have to retaliate/avenge what has been done against you?
- PATIENCE. Are you able to wait and hope for change to happen when even things are not going your way? or do you react quickly.
- KINDNESS. Do you acept any wrong doing and hope for a change but not been hard on yourself. Are you friendly, considerate, and generouse to others?.
- GOODNESS. Do you do good to others even when they wrong you or do you pay them back with wrong.
- TRUST How much trust do you have for yourself and for others. In any relationship trust plays a major role to keep it moving forward. therefore you should learn and practice how to trust.
- GENTLENESS. Be gentle in your relationship. Do not be too harsh on others when you are correcting them from their wrong.
- SELF-CONTROL. Always control yourself because in every relationship, there will be a lot of mistakes, insults, abuse etc but the responsibility lies on you to control yourself in order to prevent anything that does not bring peace. and Lastly.
10.RESPECT AND FORGIVENESS. Learn how to respect and forgive because human beings are totally different all together and they are difficult to please.
These are spiritual laws therefore it will not be easy to practice them physically but I tell you this, being able to learn and practice these values will make you succeed in keeping any relationship you build. Just take the first step to practice and be focus on it constantly will give you victory.
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