Your words mixed with your thoughts blend to become your reality. What you speak over your life is what your life will become. If you are always talking about how you can't find a way to get out of the situation you are in, how you never get any luck, well, you are right. You will never have those things if that is what you say and that is what you believe.
If you don't believe it you won't even try to get it Instead of saying I don't know how to do it, say ''I am committed to learning how to do it''. Instead of saying I always procrastinate and never get anything done, say ''I am going to find something that matters to me and then I am going to get the job done''. Instead of saying ''my best days are behind me'', say ''My best is yet to come''. Instead of believing others are born lucky or with special gifts KNOW that you are capable of everything, KNOW that you can study and commit to learning from great people.
Ghandy said: ''YOUR BELIEFS BECOME YOUR THOUGHTS, YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME YOUR WORDS, YOUR WORDS BECOME YOUR ACTIONS, YOUR ACTIONS BECOME YOUR HABITS, YOUR HABITS BECOME YOUR VALUES, YOUR VALUES BECOME YOUR DESTINY''.