𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗔𝗻 𝗢𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁?
Each person, consciously or unconsciously, decides what the perspective with which to face life is. This choice depends on one's personal and relational experiences and specific traits of one's personality. Still, very often it also derives from the habit (or lack thereof) of reflection and self-analysis.
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