Love Your Self This is really the very first step. I would even dare to say that it is first better to be alone if you don't love yourself. Be alone and feel that every thought about yourself is absolutely not true. During our lives we gather so many ideas about ourselves from others and we sometimes forget that we ourselves are the only person that really know who we are. And the beautiful thing is that we are actually everything and nothing. We are constantly in motion. Even though our minds long to tell us that we are this or that. It's a really scary thing for the mind. But if you really look at it you can be anyone any moment. One day you could be the hero. On the same day you could be the little scared person not knowing what to do.