Life Lessons People Learn TOO Late

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
Imagine if you had the ability to learn all the mistakes that everyone else had made in life and not make them yourself? Youd breeze through your existence. But life isnt about everything being plain sailing. Its all about the ups and the downs. However there are some crucially important life lessons to be learnt that unfortunately many learn to late. Or sometimes not even at all. Learning these life lessons wont make your life plain sailing but it will ...
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3 Simple Tips For Staying Motivated

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
With 2018 fast approaching many people are probably already thinking about what they want to achieve in the new year. Unfortunately many new years resolutions end up being ditched within the first couple of months. A big factor for this is motivation, if you want to learn more about the science of motivation watch the video below. Its only short and gives some great insights! Here are 3 of my top tips for staying motivated- Dont allow yourself to get overwhelmed- The ...
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5 Tips For Succeeding At The Game Of Life

by Hayley Baines Business, Relationships, Self Improvement
Not too long ago I believed that the game of life was rigged. I wasnt making myself accountable for my actions and thought I had no choice in the matter of how my life was going to go. Through becoming a memeber of the SFM (Six figure mentors) I have learnt that all this was was a massive limiting belief in which I looked for evidence to support. Since then Ive eradicated that way of thinking and now want to ...
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Life's Most Valuable Asset And How To Achieve More Of It

by Hayley Baines Business, Relationships, Self Improvement
The most valuable asset in life is in the hands of all living beings. We cant buy more of it and when its gone, its gone. If I was to ask you today what your most valuable asset right now in this moment is you might say your house, your car or even your family or friends. The truth is your most valuable assest is none of these. Your most valuable asset is the same as the 7 other billion people on ...
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Create Time Freedom Using The Booming Digital Economy

by Hayley Baines Business, Computers and Technology, Self Improvement
With so many people now active online its crazy to think that only the small minority of people take advantage of this brand new oppurtunity to make money. The digital economy presents an incredible chance for everyone to earn a passive income. Passive income-NOUN-Income derived without active involement in generating it I think the reason for this is lack of knowledge on the digital economy or fear that its only for popular social media profiles or those who are super tech ...
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The Power Of Self-Awareness

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
Self awareness is a incredibly underminded tool. The higher your levels of self awareness the higher your chances of reaching your goals in life. If you dont think that self awareness is important then I suggest you ask yourself these questions. If I dont know myself how can I: 1.Know what I want out of life?  2.Know what I want from a partner?  3.Know what I want from my social circle? If you dont stand strong in your own self awareness you can ...
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The Power Of Having Mentor-Part 1.

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
Having someone who you can look to for guidance is crucial in creating a successful life for yourself. It is of course possible to create a successful life without having a mentor but a mentor will teach you the lessons they learnt from the mistakes they made and how to avoid making these mistakes in the first place. Without this you'd have to learn the hard way. Making the mistakes yourself. This can be costly towards you in many ways ...
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How Emotions Are Made-The Secret Life Of The Brain

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement, Book Reviews
Knowing how and why emotions are made is the first step to taking control of them. As a hypersensitive person I find it extremely helpful to know what it is that is happening inside my body that can, what at times feel like, instantly change my mood. My whole perception of reality changes along with this mood switch.  It can be difficult at times to remember when in this state of mind that what is happening is often physiological. Often you can get ...
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5 ways to stop over-thinking

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
Work has become incredibly tedious for me. I play the role of a barista in a cafe and have been doing so full time for about 7 months. Everything has become so automatic that over half the time I'm in auto pilot leaving a lot of time for me to think. Over think in fact.  Thinking through problems can be helpful but when it's all you can think about, with no end solution in sight, that's when it can lead to ...
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The Problems With Texting

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
Communicating with others has become easier then ever with the rise of the smart phone. Even though we are now more connected then ever there is a massive disconnect happening between us and the real world. We share so much via text that when it comes to meeting in person we have little to say, we miscommunicate often without any contextualisation and text different to how we speak. All this can lead to awkward face to face meetings and arguments. ...
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How To Wake Up Everyday Happy

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
Happiness can happen at the flick of a switch and everyone is in control of there own personal happiness button. Sometimes its easy to forget that we have the power within ourselfs to control our emotions, especially when our basic needs are not being met. For example you are sleep deprived, hungry or physcially exhausted.  Heres an easy way that I have found to starting your day off happy. As soon as you wake up say (aloud or to yourself) or ...
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How To Meditate For A Peaceful Mind And Abundance Filled Life

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
Mediation is becoming more and more popular in westernised culture. Why? Meditation helps in a number of ways. Countless scientific studies have shown it to decrease depression, stress and increase immunity. It also helps us become aware that there is no I. No self. We are not seperate from the universe, we are part of it. To summarise something I heard in a Jim Carrey speech-you call a wave a wave but that wave is still part of the ocean. Just as we ...
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How To Deal With Toxic People In Life

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement
In everyones life at some point or another you are going to come across toxic, negative people. There are many different types of toxic people and having them in your circle of influence can have a massive effect on your life. Below is an amazing video I found that perfectly sums how to deal with toxic people.  Click here to watch the video if you're on your phone! To summarise what was said in the video- Look at your circle of influence- Who ...
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How To Keep Your Dreams Alive

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Self Improvement, Reference and Education, Writing and Speaking
Alot of times in day to day life when swamped with, what seems like, never ending tasks it can become difficult to focus on the bigger picture. The oppurtunity to get what you really want out of life slips away before you even become aware of it. How can you stop this from happening? A very important task I have found to keeping your dreams and goals in life alive is to write a bucket list. Why is just writting a bucket list ...
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The Amazing Secret To Over Coming Obstacles In Life

by Hayley Baines Relationships, Health and Fitness, Self Improvement
Here's the secret to success. No it's not money, resources, time or even motivation. The secret is within everyone and is usually rooted deep in the subconscious mind. Those who are aware of this secret can harness it's power to use it to fulfil there ultimate goals in life. Those who are unaware of it allow it to create mental obstacles between them and their higher purpose. The secret is... ...your core beliefs. If you're not sure what core beliefs are and/or how to over-come them I invite you ...
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How To Fund The Education Of Your Future

by Hayley Baines Investing, Self Improvement, Reference and Education
Want a form of education but not sure how to get the funds to pay for It? Worried about job prospects without it? No-one should have educational opportunities taken away from then due to lack of funding... ...I'm here to tell you how at 20 years old with NO credit history I got a 25k loan with 11%APR! Firsts things first I went into my local bank. I set up a meeting for a week later and was told I needed a business plan, ...
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