Until you realize that you attract what you are and not what you want, things will not change. You want some extraordinary things to happen in your life, yet something limits them from actually happening. The barrier seems beyond your reach, but it is actually the way in which you see yourself.
So what can you do to change the odds in your favor? What could you do to attract what you want? Should you work on yourself and make some changes?
Well, up until you begin to think and act like the person who has the things you long for, you will never attract those things. Successful people have wealth because they believe and act in that way. So, you have to surround yourself with people who have what you want and spend time around things you desire.
So many of us work very hard and sacrifice a lot to create a great life. Yet most are unsatisfied, upset, or irritated. They cannot understand why life is so hard or why life keeps giving them such a poor hand. I won’t lie; it was my case. My life looked like a real roller-coaster.
Understanding What You Attract
Each instant you give your attention to what you desire, it acts like a domino effect, one domino colliding onto the next. It means that no matter if you feel good or bad you continue to attract and improve the way you think at the present moment.
Therefore, you have to understand that when you experience the way you would feel if you already had what you want, you will move towards the achievement of your desire. At one point in time, through actions, it will inevitably be attracted to you.
This universal law often called the law of attraction affects all of us and everything that surrounds you whether or not you believe or are aware of its existence. Once you realize how the Universe works, you can then understand why you attract what you are.
You Attract What You Are
Life is only hard because you believe that it is. What I mean by that is that life continues to distribute a lousy hand to the people who think that it will. So you do not attract what you want, but what you are.
However, a way to attract what you want is to change the way you think or speak in some circumstances. Create a different picture by getting a different mindset. Even if the image you picture is untrue for the moment, the longer you hold on to it, the more you will begin to believe and accept it.
Yet, in time, all that you are doing is telling yourself the truth. You just have to believe it beyond the shadow of a doubt. And to grasp how the law of attraction works, you have to view yourself as a magnet. That’s right! You are like a powerful magnet that attracts people, situations, places, things, and more which match the way you feel or vibrate.
You Attract like a Magnet
It means that when you feel good, you attract mostly good things in return. It will make you feel even better which creates more good in your life, just like the domino effect. On the other hand, if you feel bad or feel frustrated in undesirable circumstances, you invite more things that make you feel even more awful.
So, you have to pay attention to your thoughts and the way you feel at all times. The way you feel acts as a personal vibration, and it attracts it. The law of attraction is made of waves which draw similar frequencies.
As a result, you naturally act as a magnet at all times. You attract things that match your frequency. It is why the way you feel is a crucial element you need to consider so you can harness the power of the law of attraction.
Train Your Mind to Attract Your Desires
At any time you feel great, you attract what you want into your life. However, when you do not feel right, you are turning off the flow of good experiences in your existence. No matter where you are right now though, you can thoroughly improve your current state of being.
If you are in a bad time of your life right now, there are ways to train your mind to attract what you want. I know it is not easy but try to place your focus on images and thoughts that make you feel better. In this way, you improve the way you see things and attract and even match the new way in which you feel.
So, if you can keep a positive perspective that links with the thoughts of your desires, what you want will at some point manifest in your experience also. It is important to remember that constant attention what you desire creates a significant positive effect.
Focus Your Attention
As you focus your attention on what you want for long periods of time, the attraction between what you wish and yourself becomes very strong. And when you keep putting your focus on what you want, you then begin to attract the opportunities to realize what you want into your life.
If your thoughts do not match what you want, you have to switch your attention to things and ideas that do match it. Once you have changed the way you feel and think, the Universe has to create experiences of a similar frequency.
Remember that the only language the universe speaks is frequencies. Try your best to picture what you want in your mind to feel great and just see how things unfold.
Tips to Attract What You Want
- To simplify this process, give your attention to the type of life you want to live.
- Discover the feeling of living the life you want to live. It will become your reality as a result.
- Enhance your ability to attract your desires by picturing what you crave for yourself.
- Surround yourself with people who have what it is you want.
- Begin to develop the same emotions, feelings, and thought processes than people who are already where you want to be.
- Maintain dominant thoughts and feelings no matter the circumstances.
- Understand the core concept of the law of attraction.
- Give full attention to your desires to align your vibration with the universe.
- Align your thoughts, feelings, and emotions with your desires.
Above here were a few of the basics ways to attract what you want but there are many other techniques you can use to apply the law of attraction in your life. No matter the adverse conditions you may find yourself in, you need to believe and expect things to turn around in your favor.
Rather than focusing on what it is you try to get, begin to work on changing the way you see things, yourself, and what surrounds you. When you change, you will start to get what you want, and positive results will show up. Realize why you attract what you are. Make the necessary changes in the way you feel. And when you do, you will begin to attract the things you want into your life.
Sergei VanBellinghen, Founder & CEO of First-Class Lifestyle, currently a Personal Growth & Success Expert, using self-development techniques to help you succeed and have a better life. Visit my website at sergeivanbellinghen.com