2018...The New You!

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Here's the thing. And please read this carefully! You will not create a New You with the current You Mindset! It's Impossible!


For some 20 years, I learned everything there was to know about self-development. Seminar after seminar, workshop after workshop, I dutifully studied everything I could absorb. But nothing changed.

And here's why.

Deep down, I wanted others to change instead.

I wanted my family to love and accept me. I wanted my friends to like me. I wanted my work colleagues to include me in their circles. This was my Current Me Mindset.

I wanted everything outside of me to be a certain way, act a certain way, all while I mentally excluded myself inside my mind, philosophizing the self-development material I had just learned.


You can't change things just by knowing. There has to be an act of will in the world, and that act is presenting the New You into an already existing world.

This was my transition. This was the moment where I had to make a stand for all that I had learned and become, and share that with the world. It was my integration from theory, belief into authenticity. It was time to align what I felt, what I knew to be true, and spoke about consistently in my life.

SFM helped me integrate all this. It provided the tools, support, and community to help me transition into the New Me. It challenged me to step from the Current me toward the New Me, one step at a time, slowly, encouraging me to express who I am and what I love in the world.

The Current Mindset was afraid. Afraid to be seen for who it was, even though it had learned and discovered many things along its journey. It was afraid to step out into the unconscious world and be seen. It was afraid to be Free, doing what it loved, and sharing that with the world, helping others along the way.

Becoming the New, You takes courage. It takes commitment and an unwavering will to get through all the doubts and disbelief that you have conditioned yourself into. There is No alternative. Because staying as you are, will slowly destroy you. If not physically, then psychologically and spiritually.


Your Soul wants to soar, be free and express its true nature out into the world. It is not designed to trudge around on survival mode, day after day, week after week, year after year, doing something it has to for the next 40 years.

I now do a morning routine that includes meditation and gratitude for all that I have, and all that I will have. I passionately write articles, started a writing a book and do daily videos, expressing who I am and what I want to bring about into the world.

No one does anything alone. No one. We all need a helping hand. And I am grateful for all the help I have recieved and are yet to receive.


The New You, is there, somewhere in your heart, but you have to be willing to let go of all that you are right now and allow that to fill you. We don't know what's possible for you yet, or what you are capable of, but one thing is certain, is that if you never take the first step, then nothing will change.

I feel that I am about to go on a wonderful adventure, have life-changing experiences and meet someone amazing.

And I am excited.

This is the New Me.

- Sotir Ivanovski


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