We have challenges...some bigger than others throughout our lives. I wanted to share with you some of
Some of these challenges I have really struggled with, to see the positive side and the lessons they might be teaching me and it has taken me a long time to forgive and let go.I was running the victim, poor me archetype for many years, which led me to play out a lot of destructive behaviour patterns.
They were not serving me just ex-saturating things, and when you hit the bottom the only way is up and most of us have to get that point first.
I went down a new path to help me heal and through meditation, group therapies, alternative lifestyle and a clean diet I started making progress.
This blog is to help and encourage and give gratitude to others along this same journey. I have made a list of my challenges that had a massive impact on my life.
Dad left home I was age 7
My mum was an alcoholic.
I went to a children's home
My mum passed away
Got divorced and was away from my children.
Everyone has a list of challenges that have impacted their lives and they are all totally valid and relevant to them and I honour that, sharing this is another form of healing.
I have a great relationship with my dad
my mum was a beautiful and loving person, she had an illness.
I made a choice not to have the step parent in my life.
Had the time of my life in the children's home, it was a relief.
Mum will always be with me, she is happy now.
People change and go in different directions, my children are in my life.
These are the positives I choose and have learned some deep lessons. forgive and accept the circumstance as they do not become who you really are, and I encourage anyone to Reach out and share your stuff and get whatever support you need
The challenges we have in life are not always through choices we have made, one of the lessons to take away are to be responsible for the choices we make accepting any outcome or reaction from that choice.
I am confident this article will be helpful and have some healing benefits for those on this healing journey.
so much love
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